Want your boyfriend back in your life? Want him to be yours and yours only? The good news is there is a proven method to use,( even after a bad break up) if you have decided you want your boyfriend back and need advice you can trust to know what to do next.

Have you just heard that your boyfriend doesn’t love you any more? Did he land the “Its me not you” chestnut in your face? Has he said he wants more space?

Whatever the scene, you no doubt are feeling sad lonely and confused by now. You know you don’t want to lose him and are finding all you can do is think about him. You know you would do anything in the world and that you just want your boyfriend back. Right?

Well dont panic. If you want your boyfriend back by your side it is most important you stop, take a deep breath, and don’t panic! You have to understand that many of the things you are feeling right now stem from a sense of panic inside yourself. Its the most common reaction people have to breaking up so you are not alone in your feelings. The panic stems from your loss of control. All of a sudden things are different, everything has changed and you feel lost and alone Panic! All your actions are then based on regaining control.

Here are the three secrets to the first action you should take after a break up, when you have decided that no matter what, you want your boyfriend back. This advice works most effectively straight after a break up, when that sense of panic we were just talking about threatens to take over and make us do the wrong thing!:

* Secret : You need to take an absolute break from the relationship and you must accept this. This means that you can’t plan to have an “accidental” meeting, can’t send text messages, can’t make phone calls and really must not email either. Though this may seem difficult, when you want your boyfriend back giving them space is one of the most important things you can do.

* Secret : Although you should not plan this, do not avoid actually meeting him if an innocent accidental meeting does happen. You both will have shared friends and may even work together which means that an occasional unplanned meeting is unavoidable. What you must do is politely say “Hi” and then immediately move away. ( No doubt you won’t want to, but you must!). This new sense of self control that he sees in you will be appreciated.

* Secret : Make this break time just for you. It will give you chance to cool off your emotions and get your head straight. See old friends, maybe renew an old hobby or start a new activity. Go out and have some fun without guilt!

If you want your boyfriend back you will certainly need a well thought out action plan. It certainly is possible to get your boyfriend back so don’t doubt that. Take time to get your head on straight and your emotions under control. The rest of your plan will flow from reaching this point.

The advice above comes from the very first action you must take after a break up, and it comes from the highly successful Magic of Making Up program. The system has helped over 6000+ people make up with their ex’s and continues to help people everyday who are going through a break up but want to get their partner back.

If you would like to read more about the program their are links below to the Magic of Making Up. where you can find out how this proven approach can mend your relationship. The same links will also take you to a you tube video of free advice, direct from the author of the Magic of Making Up, T.W. Jackson. Your situation can be helped by the system, here’s your chance to find out how,